The Life of a Showgirl: A Swiftie Session in Nashville
Twenty-two people arrived in Nashville in October, most of them strangers, all of them carrying some version of excitement and nerves.
By the end of the weekend, that distinction barely mattered.
We had come together for the release of The Life of a Showgirl, but what unfolded over those few days was something much bigger than an album release. This Swiftie Session was a long weekend built around connection, celebration, and creating space for people to show up exactly as they are.
There were familiar faces and brand-new ones, veterans of our sessions mixed evenly with first-timers. Within hours of being together, laughter came easily. Walls came down. The room softened.
That’s usually how you know something real is beginning.

A Welcome That Felt Like Permission
We started the weekend the way we hoped it would unfold: gently.
Night one was a welcome and listening party that felt more like a sleepover than a check-in. Matching pajamas, custom cocktails and mocktails, a Showgirl-coded snack bar, and pizza everywhere. When the album finally played, the energy shifted instantly. Lyrics landed. Reactions were big and unfiltered. The excitement was electric, and there was no shame in how deeply we loved it.
Each guest received two gift bags over the weekend. One was a release-night survival kit with pajamas, a light-up bracelet, and cozy essentials. The other leaned fully into the Showgirl theme: feather hair clips, vanilla perfume, a custom-designed postcard set, and thoughtful keepsakes meant to last beyond the weekend.
By the end of the first night, nerves had turned into laughter, and strangers were already starting to feel familiar.




Stepping Into the World Together
Day two carried us out into the city, together.
We started with Pancake Pantry, one of Taylor’s well-known favorites, then headed to Target for release-day photo traditions. From there, we saw the The Fate of Ophelia music video premiere in theater, visited Madame Tussauds, and let the day unfold naturally.
That evening split in the best possible way. Some went out. Some stayed in. No one felt pressure to choose the “right” experience. Everyone was supported exactly where they were, and that flexibility became part of the weekend’s rhythm.





By day three, the tone had shifted again. Breakfast at Biscuit Love. A visit to the Country Music Hall of Fame. Then an unexpected side quest that felt almost unreal.
Overnight, a The Life of a Showgirl mural appeared in Nashville. Standing in front of it together, it felt like the city had quietly made space just for us. We continued on to see the bench dedicated to Taylor in Centennial Park, pausing long enough to let the moment sink in.
That night, we dressed up and went to a Taylor Swift night hosted by our friend Michael at The Stan Society. There was dancing, singing, and the kind of joy that doesn’t ask permission. No one was performing. Everyone was simply present.






The Ending No One Could Have Planned
Day four was meant to be for departures.
Instead, a mysterious orange door appeared in front of the mural we had visited the day before. The remaining group rushed back instinctively, as if we all knew we needed to be there.
We were interviewed by Bryan West, a moment that felt emotional, validating, and surreal all at once. And almost immediately after, it was time to say goodbye.
There were hugs and tears, laughter and long holds, all layered together. Watching it unfold, it was impossible not to notice how much had changed in such a short time. People who arrived nervous left connected. Strangers became something like friends who had always known each other.
Even through unexpected changes, small hiccups, and moments of chaos, the tone never hardened. It softened.

What We Took Home
This weekend wasn’t defined by the places we went or the moments we captured.
It was defined by the people who showed up.
For years, we’ve poured into building a community rooted in care, creativity, and genuine connection. Showgirl was the weekend we started seeing that care echoed back. Friends telling friends. New faces arriving already trusting the experience. Word traveling hand to hand, not ad to ad.
Showgirl was never about becoming someone else.
It was about remembering who you are when you’re allowed to take up space.
If this story stirred something in you, know that this wasn’t a one-time moment. There are more Swiftie Sessions ahead, new chapters opening, and more space being made for the kind of joy that lasts longer than a weekend.
Sometimes, the right people find each other exactly when they’re meant to.
2 comments
Best weekend ever! I truly could not imagine a better way to celebrate the release of a new Taylor album and usher in a brand new era. This trip was packed with laughter, connection, and girlhood. I cannot wait to experience my next session. A big thank you to Ashton and Mar for being the most gracious hostesses. I will always cherish the memories I made that weekend. ❤️🔥🫶🏼🧡
I LOVE THIS SO MUCH!!!! It looks like you all had a blast!! I’m so grateful to have found this group! Looking forward to my next mirrorball magic sessionnnnnnn 🫶